I want to remind you to be patient with yourself, but also say that I wouldn't have asked if didn't think you could. Either way I will be proud of you.
That was my concern, yes. We aren't asking for a commitment, and I'm sure anything we'd voice he already knows. Not that smelling emotions is any less weird six months later. Anyway calling them "expectations" seems like really overstating it but I know I don't want anything that he hasn't freely given us. I never "expect" him to come over, or give me advice, or spend the night. Those are things he does because wants to, aren't they? Earlier in today's conversation he said again I can always call him, and he keeps telling you that you're never bothering him either. He's more than a friend we're sleeping with to you too, right?
...though I guess it is a little worrying to realize that. Even he called it a relationship and I'm not sure what he's getting out of my side of things.
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Either way I will be proud of you.
That was my concern, yes.
We aren't asking for a commitment, and I'm sure anything we'd voice he already knows.
Not that smelling emotions is any less weird six months later.
Anyway calling them "expectations" seems like really overstating it but I know I don't want anything that he hasn't freely given us.
I never "expect" him to come over, or give me advice, or spend the night.
Those are things he does because wants to, aren't they?
Earlier in today's conversation he said again I can always call him, and he keeps telling you that you're never bothering him either.
He's more than a friend we're sleeping with to you too, right?
...though I guess it is a little worrying to realize that.
Even he called it a relationship and I'm not sure what he's getting out of my side of things.